Scott & Harvey

Well I was out on the town with John, he had just been given news a family member had passed away and as there wasn't an available flight til the next day either had to sit at home morose like or hit the town, in true John style we hit the town.

We met up with some friends of his, and went to a couple of different bars, I got up and danced, by myself as I find thats the best way to get guys to dance with you.. it worked. I danced with a Paul for a bit, but noticed a couple of guys looking, one looked familiar.

I managed to lose Paul, he was getting a bit close and I liked the way one of the guys watching me looked.

I drank a bit with my friends, and then decided I'd throw an ice cube at the one who looked familiar, he came right on over. After a quick conversation, he wasn't familiar, had been in town 5 hours.

Danced with him a bit and with his friend. They both seemed really keen, and neither minded the others interest. I kept getting sandwiched between them while dancing. It was kinky, now it has always been a fantasy of mine to have two guys, but some things may be best kept as a fantasy. John however knew this fantasy, and was pissing himself with laughter watching the two of them getting a bit competitive over me. I was keen on the taller one, the other one was a bit too good looking and shorter than me. John said later how funny it was, like a small dog humping my leg, he would grind against me as I was kissing the taller one.

When it came time to go home, the shorter guy, Harvey knew his place and said good bye. Scott came home with me and spent the night... No Tourist rule broken again but it wasn't so bad.

Adam Goldberg

Well, its not Adam Goldberg, but the one time I've met him he reminded me of Adam Goldberg, both in looks and in manner, well some of his characters manners, quirky off beat sort of guy.

I met him at a motorbike rally, he started dancing with one of my friends and I joined them dancing together, my friend left and he and I started dancing and it got close.

It was just a bit of drunken fun at a motorbike rally. But then we got back to my van and we started talking. And this fun and funny and interesting guy appeared. And we talked for about an hour, then made out a bit and then we started talking again. He was really nice. But it wasn't till the next day when I thought about him that I began to wonder if there could be more than just that night.

I sent him an email about a week later saying basically "Hey remember me?" and I said I wasn't expecting anything but there were several reactions he could have to my email.

A, Fark off you scary cougar... I almost chewed my arm off to get away in the morning, my friends said I was lucky to escape alive.

B, SAL who? OMG was that your name... sorry you are too easy to forget.

C, I remember you, yeah that was fun, maybe next time I'm in town I'll look you up. See you next year though.

D, Yeah, it was a lot of fun and I'd like to do that again soon. I'll call you - lets see what happens.

I got a reply from him the next day, I liked his reply, it was honest and flattering but it was a no, not interested. Well, I may as well show you.

"Hi there,

SAL I'm a bit at a loss as to what to say.
I so don't do that sort of thing, sure was some fun times i have flashes of awesomeness.
Honestly I'm trying to get a girl I've been talking to for some time to go out with me, and so should not have gone with you to your van.
so unfortunately only a 1 night stand and one I'd like to keep to just you and me? Sorry. I don't want to take anything away from it, as it's some of the most fun I've had for some time.
I know this isn't the reply you were looking for.

Happy to chat etc if you want.

Cheers

Adam."

I felt it was a genuine honest reply and I appreciated it, we have chatted back and forth a bit now, and he sent me a facebook friend request. I thought about accepting it for a week or so, then just did it. I'm guessing I shouldn't have now as I'm feeling more of a crush on him with each contact. He has started asking me stuff about things in my photos and things I have posted.

But the one thing that gives me hope is the way he signs off emails, he started adding stuff in, First it was XXX's after his name then its like Cheers and big hugs with the XXX's I've taken his move and thrown it back, "Cheers and big hugs that start off as a hug but end up as an arse grab" was my last response. It should either make him run a mile or we are gonna end up having cyber sex in our sign offs :rofl:

I'm trying not to invest much in this. I will also try and keep you lot posted ;-)

Update 1

Well he hasn't run a mile, things are getting friendlier and friendlier. We have discussed his other friend, his love interest I guess. It doesn't sound like anything is going anywhere fast, they met 10 years ago and have had relationships fail since then. But have never met again and its a text message and email relationship.

He seems to think as fondly as I do of the time we spent together, we have started chatting on FB more and more and have switched to web cam chat, its still restrained and tame but its driving me wild... in a good way! He knows how to tease me.

Update 2

I was going up to his town and met up with him for a while. His car was being fixed and so I picked him up, we were going to go out for a drink. So I picked him up asked where we were going, he said anywhere, I rolled my eyes. It's his town he should suggest where to go. So we drove around a bit and then found a place he was ok with and had a couple of drinks. then we went for a walk along the beach and found a secluded spot and sat down. I made the first move, pulled his arms around me and kissed him, before long I was sitting in his lap, astride him, we ended up having a lot of fun in the dark on the beach, it was a stormy windy night but at no time did I feel cold with him. We stayed out there for a few hours, wrapped in each other arms, talking. I really like him. We agreed to meet again, but we would find somewhere we could stay the night.

I called him the next day and asked if he had any suggestions where we could meet, he said he was not good at organizing stuff and I should do it. I booked a cabin in a small town not far from where we were. I picked him up and we went out there, the sexual tension was intense, we fell in each others arms as soon as we got inside, emerged a few hours later and decided to go for a drive around the countryside. He drove me car. OMG he was such a commanding driver, so powerful so in control totally pushing my wee nana sized car to its limits... WHY CAN'T HE BE LIKE THAT IN LIFE! Spending so much time with him made me see exactly how passive and indecisive he is, in both his life and with other people.

We went out for a meal and had a really lovely passionate night together. We watched a movie on his laptop, he lay behind me and held me as we watched together. It felt so good it nearly made me cry. He certainly sets the standard when is comes to physical looks and the way we fit together, but not his gentle but too passive indecisive and depressive personality.

We have managed to stay friends, I adore him and would go there again but know he isn't right for me and I'm not right for him. But I'm glad I got the time to find out for myself.

I wanted that with Olly, time to get to know him, but never got it. I've always thought its the fact things are unknown between Olly and me that means I can't get him out of my head.