He sent an email that stood out, It didn't have Hi in the title and he asked a question which opened things up for me to reply.
We exchanged a few emails, he asked fun questions, "Do I like white roses?" "Can I bake a mean carrot cake?"
When I look at his profile I'm everything he wants except for being slender or athletic/toned which every guy wants until he spends the night with her in a van when he realizes a bit of padding is not such a bad thing.He ticks most of my boxes too.
He lives a bit far away, but its nothing that can't be overcome.
He sent me a pic of his dog- a similar dog to the one I had.
I feel cynical though, so many frogs its hard to find the prince among them... I know he is out there - I've just not met him yet.
Update.
So we got chatting online the other night and decided to exchange some more pics... I sent some hot sexy, happy and adventurous looking pics... he then said he had none. I sent him a somewhat risque pic of me in a hot tub in exchange for him sending me one of him with his shirt off. he is a builder and in his pics he looked fairly fit... well I'm now guessing they were fairly old pics cos the one he sent me... well its not pretty, pale pasty moobs (Man boobs) dominate the pic, he has about 3 double chins (Does that make it a triple chin?) and he is almost scowling in a constipated manner at the camera... I said dude you should be smiling, he said its late and I'm tired, i said you are talking to me - YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY BOUT THAT!
The chat is fine and fun but he looks way older and way bigger than "average" as stated in his profile. I'm now looking back at the pics I first saw and thinking they are on weird angles, does that just make him look average? I'm also looking at his hairline and while he is nowhere near bald his forehead is a lot larger in the pic he sent me just taken... another frog I'm guessing but... I may try online chatting with web cam to see, maybe he just isn't photogenic.
UPDATE 2, have had a chat online, he really does look older for his age, but he was nice to chat with, he is much better looking animated than in a photo. One of his friends was there, they were both new to Skype and I was tempted to do my welcome to web cam chat trick... where I arrange the web cam to head and shoulders and then take my top off... usually driving them insane, making them stand up and move their web cam/computer around trying to find an angle with more advantage. But I restrained myself.
UPDATE 3 So spent about 1.5 hours chatting to him from 11.30pm when I got home from my night on the town. Never short of anything to chat about. He tells me about the house he is renovating, about the kitchen he ordered for it. Trying to seduce me with his smooth granite counter tops... its kind of working. I know I'm not the kind of girl to fall for someone for their asset list, but its nice to know that by his age he has some, he is 8 years older than me. He called me "just a child really" which bemused me, he thinks I'm so young, does that mean he wants to be my sugar daddy? He has such lovely dogs too, I met them online - strangely they showed no interest in me whatsoever.
He keeps asking why I am still single, seems to think I should have been snapped up ages ago. He told me I was a stunner, I find compliments like that hard to take, its just too much so I know its not true. I replied that all the girls in his town must be bush pigs.
No set day/time to chat again but I know I want to soon.
Update 4
More chat, he keeps calling me gorgeous... makes me a bit uncomfortable... but I'm really starting to like him. Found out a lot about him, he was a fire fighter for a few years in Melbourne, rural fire like me. He does volunteer work for Red Cross... now I really like that. He seems really busy, he is working on his own house right, asked my advice about colours, it feels wrong offering that advice as I know I'm not likely to be the one enjoying them. he is coming down my way soon, to pick up a truck, a water tanker, one that I used to drive (well the same type) when I was in the fire brigade. He said he would visit me then. He lives such a long way away I really can't see myself relocating that far and he has so many business and interests where he is... but I don't want to say its impossible. But leaving the chat with him I have a smile on my face.
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