Oh Olly

Olly is the guy who I have a stupid schoolgirl crush on that I can't seem to shake.

I was in his town a few weekends back and sent him a text saying I was there for a few hours and did he want to catch up, I finished my business there and drove to another town where I had to drop stuff off. I got back to my car, looked at my phone and saw I had three missed calls from him and a text. his text said Are you still in town, would be nice to catch up.

I sent him a text back saying sorry, had gone but would catch up with him next year. It had been a year since we had caught up in person.

He said I'm going to be down your way in a few weeks, we should catch up then. I asked if he knew that i had moved? he said yeah it was only 80km out of his way. I thought WTF when I lived 50km out of his way we never caught up even when he was in town, its not going to happen.

But sure enough, a few weeks later, he got hold of me and told me a day and asked for my new address. I tried not to get my hopes up, he has bailed on me so many times before.

All I want is to spend some time with him and get to know him better to try and understand why I go all silly and giggly when he is about and all I can think of is touching him and lying naked in his arms. He certainly isn't gods gift to women by traditional standards.

I had work in the morning of the day he was coming. I came home, did some housework, had a shower, went to have a nap. I sent him a text asking if he was still coming. He said he was tired and wanted to go home not 80km out of his way.

I replied "You are still scared of me aren't you"

(He knows I have a crush on him)

Olly replied "Fark yeah!!!"

I replied Thought I smelt chicken, I'm harmless, well mostly ;-) I'm used to you bailing on me now.

Olly replied "Good girl, you should still be living in Qtown"

I replied "I lived there for two years and you never visited, why do you think I was so shocked when you said you would visit me when i live further away now"

Olly replied, "Good things come to those who wait girl"

I replied "I'm not a sit at home and wait kind of girl, I'll just boil a bunny for tea and ask someone else over :-)

I then took a pic of my daughters pet rabbit beside a pot surrounded by a carrot and onion ad sent it to him. Once when I told Olly about a drive home from his town I mentioned how many wild rabbits my car had hit, Olly joked about me stopping to pick them up and boil them. He thinks I'm obsessed with him and will stalk him. I should never have told him about my crush on him.

Olly replied

:-D

The man drives me insane... maybe I am a bunny boiler?

Cows With Guns

CWG is his initials, I didn't think much of his profile but he was tall and I like em tall.

I agreed to meet him in a coffee shop but I was running late so sent him a text saying he had a choice, I could either be later or he got me in work clothing straight off the farm. He chose straight off the farm.

I met him and thought wow he is cute, nothing like his profile pic, his face is lively and animated and he smiles a lot. He had lovely twinkly blue eyes. We got on well I thought, he worked in the same industry as me, in a similar capacity too. He was environmental enforcement I was environmental monitoring. He liked music, he does Volly work. He is a bit more of a loner than me, he is happy to go away for a weekend fishing by himself. I would always take friends.

He doesn't have kids and would like them, his own, given my age and the age of my kids its not likely to happen so I feel a bit put off by that, it could cause issues later on - if things did ever progress.

He sent me a text within two hours of us parting, but just a casual sort of text. I was thrilled to get it though. But since then messaging and texting has been sporadic. He would like to meet me again he said but he is fairly busy. I understand but would like more flirt lol.

Update 1

I managed to meet him again for a cup of tea and a beer a couple of weeks later and loved every minute of his company. We spent a good hour together then he got me to give him a ride home. I managed to give his bum a wee pat as he got out of my car, but it was raining and I had to go get my kids so had to hurry.

Flirty texts and some pic exchanges occurred.

Next meet was me dropping off some excess seafood I had been bragging about, but I had the kids waiting in the car I managed to get a cuddle out of him and a got a pat on my bum.

But weekend after weekend we both seem to have plans, its damn hard to meet up.

But... we did manage a short overnight while I was staying with friends in Qtown, it was awkward as we haven't spent enough time together, but I'm totally into him.

One Weekend...

I have been chatting/texting to 3 guys at one and I'm not sure how this weekend is going to pan out.

First there is Evan, he is nice and tall but a little bit skinny for me but there is a real spark with his wit and his manner, but he keeps wanting to meet me at my place, and for sex only. Not what I want. I keep telling him I need to meet him somewhere neutral before I even consider taking him to my place and when I do meet him there are no guaranties I will put out (Ok, so you all roll your eyes as you know me better) But then after calling him and talking to him I finally got out of him he has a girlfriend, on and off sort of thing and thats why he doesn't want to meet in public. What a load of crap. last thing I want to be is the other woman who hurts his girlfriend. If he wants to meet me, its a public place and he is single.

Then came Paul, nice enough guy, met him for coffee, we chatted and got on well, but there is no physical spark, he seems a lot shorter than he said in his profile. He is really into me, I tell him I'm too busy to meet him again and he says I'm worth the wait, I tell him I'm chatting to other guys and plan to meet them too, he says he isn't interested in other women -I'm the right woman for him. Its too intense, I've agreed to go on a another date with him but have postponed twice, he is fine with that -I'm worth the wait. I'm actually put off by his keenness. Its dinner and a movie with him Sat night... I feel I'm just leading him on yet I've been straight up and up front with him. I will have to say no more if he doesn't get it and i still feel the same way after our date Sat.

Grant, doesn't make my skin crawl, makes me laugh, not quite as tall as I'd like and way sporty which I'm not. Our first meet/date is playing golf on Friday, I'm useless at golf, he thinks that is funny. I can just imagine him doing the corny arms around me showing me how to get the swing right, rubbing himself against me... yet I'm not put off. We have been really flirty, its been a lot of fun but I have been clear and straight up and let him know its back to square one when we meet.

I'll try and post Sunday and let you know how my weekend is going.

UPDATE 1

Evan, I have finally met him. He had finally convinced me he was single, we got talking and I asked him if he had mentioned me to anyone at his work, where I used to work casually about 13 years ago. He said he had and told me about how my former boss, how his boss remembered me and what he had said.

I was actually really flattered. Former Boss remembered me and said some nice stuff and recalled almost word for word our last meeting when I had a new born and he dragged me and the baby to his office for coffee and cake and a chat.

So I let my guard down and he came to my place for a coffee, 11pm after he finished work.

He was nice but he wanted to talk about me and just evaded any questions about him. I guess he is a reported so is used to doing that. But things will never be between us, he has his boy weekends when I am kid free, there isn't going to be a lot of time for us to get to know each other without involving the kids which is something I don't want to do.

We are keeping in contact and he still wants to find a way. But I also get the feeling he is not interested long term but just wants a friend with benefits.

Paul, has started to creep me out, the Sat night date was nice but he made people uncomfortable by cracking lame and un funny attempts at jokes. For instance we walked into a bar which is in a building which used to be a department store about 15 years ago. When we approached the bar he asked the bar lady if he could collect a layby... this is Deka isn't it? The bar lady would ahve been about 8 when Deka closed down and had no idea what he was talking about. It also made me feel old!!!

Wellt he date was nice but then he asked me to his place for coffee one afternoon, I went and his house was lined from wall to wall with DVD's it seems the guy does nothing but record and watch movies and is very proud of that. I want someone with more of an active life.

Grant, well we met in a bar and the sport was on, he said Hi, we got a drink and he sat almost with his back to me so he could watch sport. After an hour of trying to make conversation I got bored and said I was going. He looked me up and down and said "Don't spose we could go somewhere so I could have a feel of those puppies before you go" he was referring to my breasts. I said No, he asked repeatedly and I began to laugh it was so silly. he said "You can't blame me for asking- their spectacular" and i said goodbye and laughed all the way to my car, drove away got a text from him about an hour later saying "I guess you not coming back"

I replied "I like the way you make me laugh - but thats a No!"