First there is Evan, he is nice and tall but a little bit skinny for me but there is a real spark with his wit and his manner, but he keeps wanting to meet me at my place, and for sex only. Not what I want. I keep telling him I need to meet him somewhere neutral before I even consider taking him to my place and when I do meet him there are no guaranties I will put out (Ok, so you all roll your eyes as you know me better) But then after calling him and talking to him I finally got out of him he has a girlfriend, on and off sort of thing and thats why he doesn't want to meet in public. What a load of crap. last thing I want to be is the other woman who hurts his girlfriend. If he wants to meet me, its a public place and he is single.
Then came Paul, nice enough guy, met him for coffee, we chatted and got on well, but there is no physical spark, he seems a lot shorter than he said in his profile. He is really into me, I tell him I'm too busy to meet him again and he says I'm worth the wait, I tell him I'm chatting to other guys and plan to meet them too, he says he isn't interested in other women -I'm the right woman for him. Its too intense, I've agreed to go on a another date with him but have postponed twice, he is fine with that -I'm worth the wait. I'm actually put off by his keenness. Its dinner and a movie with him Sat night... I feel I'm just leading him on yet I've been straight up and up front with him. I will have to say no more if he doesn't get it and i still feel the same way after our date Sat.
Grant, doesn't make my skin crawl, makes me laugh, not quite as tall as I'd like and way sporty which I'm not. Our first meet/date is playing golf on Friday, I'm useless at golf, he thinks that is funny. I can just imagine him doing the corny arms around me showing me how to get the swing right, rubbing himself against me... yet I'm not put off. We have been really flirty, its been a lot of fun but I have been clear and straight up and let him know its back to square one when we meet.
I'll try and post Sunday and let you know how my weekend is going.
UPDATE 1
Evan, I have finally met him. He had finally convinced me he was single, we got talking and I asked him if he had mentioned me to anyone at his work, where I used to work casually about 13 years ago. He said he had and told me about how my former boss, how his boss remembered me and what he had said.
I was actually really flattered. Former Boss remembered me and said some nice stuff and recalled almost word for word our last meeting when I had a new born and he dragged me and the baby to his office for coffee and cake and a chat.
So I let my guard down and he came to my place for a coffee, 11pm after he finished work.
He was nice but he wanted to talk about me and just evaded any questions about him. I guess he is a reported so is used to doing that. But things will never be between us, he has his boy weekends when I am kid free, there isn't going to be a lot of time for us to get to know each other without involving the kids which is something I don't want to do.
We are keeping in contact and he still wants to find a way. But I also get the feeling he is not interested long term but just wants a friend with benefits.
Paul, has started to creep me out, the Sat night date was nice but he made people uncomfortable by cracking lame and un funny attempts at jokes. For instance we walked into a bar which is in a building which used to be a department store about 15 years ago. When we approached the bar he asked the bar lady if he could collect a layby... this is Deka isn't it? The bar lady would ahve been about 8 when Deka closed down and had no idea what he was talking about. It also made me feel old!!!
Wellt he date was nice but then he asked me to his place for coffee one afternoon, I went and his house was lined from wall to wall with DVD's it seems the guy does nothing but record and watch movies and is very proud of that. I want someone with more of an active life.
Grant, well we met in a bar and the sport was on, he said Hi, we got a drink and he sat almost with his back to me so he could watch sport. After an hour of trying to make conversation I got bored and said I was going. He looked me up and down and said "Don't spose we could go somewhere so I could have a feel of those puppies before you go" he was referring to my breasts. I said No, he asked repeatedly and I began to laugh it was so silly. he said "You can't blame me for asking- their spectacular" and i said goodbye and laughed all the way to my car, drove away got a text from him about an hour later saying "I guess you not coming back"
I replied "I like the way you make me laugh - but thats a No!"
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